How long should it take to get pass it..... (mature answers please)?

hmm.. well cheating is a very difficult thing.. But does he still love you? Do you love him? If both answers are yes thank you lucky stars! I'm recently divorced 3 months and my wife didn't even know if she loved me and I wish we could get back together especially now that she's getting married again on Aug. 6th.. I know she's crazy.. but I loved he sooo much..